Let go of Resistance
From my twenties and onwards, the area of my life where I have created and felt the most resistance is in close relationships with friends, family and romantic partners. Although the relationship has clearly come to an end, for one reason or another, I have held on.
When it comes to friends, I assume it's because I do not know how to communicate that we have grown apart and are on different paths now. These things happen, and we have to embrace that when it does. It’s not often down to someone doing something wrong; it’s only that a new chapter is beginning.
Family is complicated. The way I manage this now is with very healthy boundaries.
In romantic relationships, I believe it is because I have feared being alone, going through the heartache of separation, and wondering if I will l ever meet someone who matches my vibe.
Nonetheless, every time I have stayed past the due date, I have become upset, tense, unable to connect, and often felt lost.
Every time I have decided to hold on to dear life, the universe has created an explosion so big that it is impossible to continue. Sometimes, we need a punch in the gut to create the necessary change.
Every time I have decided to let go of a romantic partner or friendship or set a healthy boundary with a family member, I have felt a great sense of relief and clarity.
Everyone can feel this intuitive sense when a strand of energy has ended; we must believe and not fear the unknown. And to communicate with clarity and compassion with the other person to whom all of this relates.
Ultimately, however hard it may be, we must trust that we will be okay in the end.
We all have a series of spiritual lessons while in the earthly realm.
When we resist our lessons, tensions build up within us.
Try not to resist; practice acceptance instead and see what happens.
When we let go of resistance, intuition will flow, and our energy will rise.
JOURNALING PROMPT
In what areas of your life are you creating resistance?
AFFIRMATION:
I am open and willing to embrace change.
I am accepting, loving and cared for.
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