How will I know I’m choosing the correct romantic partner?
Romantic love is, without a doubt, the most common and sought-after topic in my psychic tarot readings. It's a universal experience that we all seek to understand and navigate.
As social beings, we thrive on the nourishment of meaningful social connections. These connections are not just important; they are essential for our well-being. The most fulfilling experience is intimate companionship with another person.
Our bodies, minds, and spirits love having a partner, lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, or life partner—call it whatever you like—it seems hardwired into us.
I am currently single, and happily so, yet if the opportunity for romantic love entered my life, I would not say no.
Now, I’m no relationship expert. I only draw tarot cards on the relationship's energy and hold space for others to navigate their relationships.
However, from my experience exploring being in a relationship with other men, my intuition is always correct, and I trust that 100%.
I know that something is up when I begin to feel ungrounded, anxious, and overly worried about the relationship. Every relationship has problems; that’s entirely normal. Even so, I know this doesn't seem right when it becomes chronic.
So, in other words, it’s about seeking the opposite.
Seek someone who consistently calms your nervous system, brings groundedness forward, is good at communicating and listening, and takes initiative.
All in all, your intuition will always be correct. If it says no, move on. Your life is too short to waste on people unprepared to meet you where you are. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
I realise it’s not that simple when you have a house and kids together, but you catch my drift.
If and when you choose a partner and it does not work out, you did not do anything wrong. Your experience with them was a lesson to learn from. So, holding that mindset when the relationship goes pear-shaped will help you move on sooner rather than later.
Take what you learned, don’t close your heart, and keep going.
I often encounter people who are afraid of getting hurt. Possibly getting hurt is a part of the journey and always a risk worth taking.
Loneliness is real; even so, don’t let that become your reason for choosing someone. That diminishes your worth and often permits others to treat you poorly because you don’t want to be alone. Become comfortable in your skin, love spending time by yourself, and you will find someone who finds that utterly attractive.
Finally, don’t fall in love with potential. I read an IG post that said, “Falling in love with potential is a recipe for disaster.” I could not agree more—I have fallen into this trap, and it is not worth it. You have to love them for who they are today.
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